You got the first date you wanted. Do
you think this is the only challenge you have to tackle? It is now time to plan
the date, decide what to wear, know what to do when the date ends and win your
chances at a second date. This isn't too much pressure, right? Do not fret my
pet, I have all the tips you need to make this night a slamming success for
you. All you have to do is pay attention and you might just win her heart.
1. Location Is Everything
If you have any chance whatsoever of
getting to know her, the movies or a concert are probably not the best choices
for you. One you have to be quiet in, the other is too loud. Dinner at a nice
restaurant is your number one option. You might want to ask her what type of
food she likes first, and what places she prefers, enabling you to choose an
eatery that she enjoys. This is the first step in winning points, as it shows
how thoughtful you are.
2. Grooming
Of course you are going to brush your
teeth and wash your hair, right? If you really want to impress on a first date,
though, make sure you are clean-shaven and are wearing a splash of "I want
to eat you" cologne. Yes, you want to look like yourself, but there is
nothing wrong with donning duds that accentuate your best assets. Leave the
T-shirts behind and wear a polo instead. These shirts look great even with a
nice pair of jeans.
3. Be on Time
Punctuality is everything to a girl.
You can be 5 minutes early if you want, but never be five minutes late. This
gives her the impression your date is not as important to you as it is to her.
Women spend much more time preparing than men do.
Another tip - do not arrive any more
than 5 minutes early. This shows you are over eager and will throw up a red
flag for her. It can ruin your chances of the second date.
4. Wear a Confident Smile
It does not matter if your knees are
knocking and your toes are trembling; present yourself at her door with a smile
of confidence that melts her heart. Women love confidence in a man. Even if you
have to act it until you feel it, then you had better win the Academy Award.
5. Be a Gentleman
Open your car door for her, pull out
her chair at the restaurant, and if she needs to go power her nose halfway
through dinner, stand when she does. These are all signs of respect for her,
and believe me, she will not only notice them, she will appreciate them as
well.
6. The Conversation
This is perhaps the most critical
part of your date. It gives you both the opportunity to get to know one
another, which is the deciding factor regarding date number two. Although you
may be tempted to brag about yourself in an attempt to impress her, all this
will do is make her think you are arrogant and pompous. Instead, ask her
questions about herself. Here is the trick, though. You have to truly listen to
what she is saying and show her this by asking more questions based on what she
is telling you. There are big points to be won here.
7. No Expectations
Of course you are going to pay for
the bill. It is only the right thing to do. However, this does not give you the
right to think you can paw her all over, or believe she will come home and land
in your bed. This thinking is sexist. If you really like this person, treat her
with respect. Yes, it is okay to lay your hand on the small of her back as you
lead her out the door, but no more.
8. Saying Goodnight
This is probably the most awkward
part of the evening. Do not make it worse, though. Walk her to her front door
and tell her what a wonderful time you had. Be honest with her and let her know
you would like to see her again sometime. If she smiles and says she would like
that too, the next step is to ask for a kiss, and I do mean ask. "Would
you mind if I gave you a kiss before I ride off into the sunset?" Using
humor helps break up the tension and eases nerves. She surely will grant your
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